Consent-Based Teaching Artist Program

for Artists, Consultants, Freelancers, and Aspiring Educators

find your unique approach to your field, build your own curriculum for classes and coaching, and build your business to support your creative work

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Classes will be recorded for you to view after, but no more than two absences from live classes is requested.

15 spots for the full program. Unlimited spots for Consent Educator Training 1/2 Program and Unblocked a la carte.

Applications closed.

Loving your craft means you should get paid more for it, not less.

This program is founded on principles of autonomy and agency. 

I believe that consent is a shared responsibility, not that of one person or one demographic. I believe we have to take responsibility for risks we take knowingly and choices we make, and move through regret when it comes. I don’t believe in blame and punishment when we miseducate people through media and poor consent education. I believe in rehabilitation and repair. I believe we have an obligation to each other to learn our own boundaries and communicate them, as much as we have an obligation to ask and check in. I think if we redirect resources towards healing, support, and education and away from trying to identify who’s at fault so we can punish them (often with incarceration), we would all be better off. 

Part of me respecting your autonomy is that I trust you to know yourself and to know what you need to take care of yourself. I will support you in building a care plan at the beginning of class so you have it as tough things come up.

Who is it for?

Are you making enough money to live your values? We are dreaming a new economy of care into being when we’re willing to thrive and support each other in thriving.
— Dez Davis

This is a combination of my Consent Educator course with Biz Support and my Unblocked course. Please read more specifically about the Unblocked course for a fuller picture what we’ll be doing. The Unblocked and Consent Educator training sections of this full program will be open to the public, however the business support portion will only be available to those who apply and who complete the Consent Educator training, Unblocked, or both.

My approach is somatic, integrative, anti-carceral, anti-cancellation, anti-binary, and based in helping others find their voice.

The intention of this program is that you will be able to bring consent work into your art, as well as build a teaching practice and business founded in these principles that sustains your artwork. This program will give you practice tools to access your creativity, work through perfectionism, mythbust the idea that making money off your work makes you a baaaaaaad evil Capitalist, and help you find or reconnect with your voice. You’ll embody consent and feel your boundaries in subtler and deeper ways, and you’ll be able to support others in doing the same. You’ll receive business support to tackle people pleasing and perfectionism in business, reckon with your inner critic, build a brand manual, build a social media presence, market yourself while prioritizing your self expression, and prevent burnout.

Without applying, you can sign up for the first portion focused on Consent Education to become a consent educator. This portion is a great fit for mental health practitioners, therapists, coaches, healers, and people who work with kids. You can also sign up for Unblocked without applying for the full program. When you sign up for the Consent Educator portion or the Unblocked course, you do not get business support unless you apply, even if you don’t want to do the full program. If this is confusing (it probably is!!) email me.

This is explained in video form here.

In past programs, we’ve had:

  • bodyworkers

  • therapists

  • an architect / designer

  • a sex surrogate

  • a mural painter

  • a yoga teacher

  • an occupational therapist + dog trainer

  • movement coaches

  • a cuddle therapist

  • a tarot reader and ritual guide

  • a pro dom / BDSM practitioner + teacher

  • a gender consultant

I believe that consent is magic. Through deep attunement to yourself and to others, I believe we can find synchronistic flow and be the people, practitioners, and business owners we want to be in the world. We can foster deeper more trusting relationships with ourselves and others, and truly become the person and business owner we envision ourselves to be as we build the world we want to live in.

A somatic consent practice is one of the key tools for healing childhood Attachment wounds, both with the self and with others. Attachment wounds can disrupt your ability to have a secure relationship with yourself, with your clients, and with your business. In this program, you will build your own consent practice and learn skills to support your clients in cultivating their own.

If you:

  • struggle with people-pleasing tendencies in your work

  • feel a codependent relationship with your art (“People need this from me so I will give and give and give”)

  • feel guilt or shame about making money with your art

  • struggle to find motivation to create

  • don’t know where to start or when to stop

  • want to make more money from your art

  • want to find a sacred relationship with play

  • want to find a more easeful relationship with your authenticity and creative self-expression

  • grapple with your ego as an artist and want to believe what you have is worth sharing with the world without feeling like an arrogant shithead

  • are interested in increasing your confidence, impact, and income in order to take your career to the next level by keeping it in alignment with your values

this program is a good fit for you.

You’ll learn:

  • to treat all the content you create as an organic, flowing ecosystem where no one creation is single use

  • to make a care plan and assist others in making their own

  • to teach the Yes to No Spectrum, FRIES, nonverbals, and other consent vocabulary and structures

  • to make a marketing funnel and a marketing cycle for the year

  • to find creativity within social media output and manage your boundaries around it to avoid burnout

  • to make a ‘lead generator’ and get people to sign up for your mailing list

  • to build your own curriculum and create practice exercises

  • and so much more!

There’s magic in desire. Asking for what you want is the spell.

If you feel yourself burnt out because you don’t have the confidence to raise your rates enough for you to work less, if you struggle to say ’no’ or feel your boundaries with your clients, if you want to find your confidence to be able to advocate for yourself in networking or press scenarios and to advocate for why people need your work, or even if you are looking for more creative flow, you’ll find this program really supportive. I’ve found this work grounding and strengthening, I’ve found my creative blocks softened or even removed, and I’ve become less emotionally porous and absorbent. I have a deeper sense of trust within myself and I bring that sense of internal safety with me everywhere I go.

Whether you want to build a business like mine or bring this work to your current business, this training will give you skills to go deeper with your clients, feel more confident in your business, make more money, and build and expand your career. 

This is a trauma- and toxic stress-aware, neuro-diversity-informed approach to consent that takes the gut-brain axis into account.

Consent is more than “no means no” or getting permission. Consent is a language and an embodied practice.

Specificity is a creative muscle.

Specificity is a creative muscle.

What will we be doing?

We’ll be going over several consent frameworks to build a vocabulary and a foundation. We’ll move into practicing our skills with these tools, and then into the arena of self-consent and the nervous system. If you’ve taken my 6-Week Course or worked with me privately, you’ll recognize a lot of the curriculum. In this program, you’ll have the space to practice teaching all these things yourself, to each other and to other people in your life.

We’ll also be going into depth around our money consciousness, our self-sabotage, and business practices. You’ll leave this program with a plan for an anti-Capitalist, 6-figure business. When we are thriving, we can help others thrive. We can't help others be resourced from an under-resourced place.

All sessions will be recorded for you and other CW educators for training purposes only.

*Applications will be reviewed on a rolling basis. Applying doesn’t guarantee a spot. I won’t be conducting interviews unless I’d like further clarification about your application.

Structure

There will be several recorded classes to watch, assignments, practice, exercises, and you will be teaching outside of class. I’ll also be meeting one on one with everyone three times to brainstorm offerings and ways to put this work to use in your business or practice. We’ll be unpacking blockages around Capitalism, resistance to sharing and believing that your perspective is of value, and ways that you’re getting in your own way. You’ll be supported in building your own structure and curriculums. We’ll go over codependency, Attachment Theory, Polyvagal Theory, the mind-gut connection, trauma-awareness, neurodivergence, and why this shit is absolute magic. This course will include materials that will help you be trauma-informed in your work. Whether you want to work with people one-on-one, teach groups, work with companies, or incorporate this work into your current job, this program will set you up to find or flesh out your Purpose and your Voice, and show up to your work whole.

The first 4-5 weeks, we will meet once a week and you’ll watch a recorded class before we meet so we can discuss and integrate the concepts together. Then we will meet twice a week.

All flourishing is mutual.
— Braiding Sweetgrass

About halfway through the program we start to go deep into business. What do boundaries look like with work? How do these consent concepts get integrated into your business as part of the foundation of your brand? How do you develop a healthy relationship to marketing, sales, branding, and making money? We will discuss imposter syndrome, money blockages, scarcity mentality, Capitalism, and how to build a sliding scale business structure.

Some of the classes will be optional in the sense that missing them does not count towards the 2 absences requested limit. Those will be Radical Mental Health First Aid with Oumou, and Social Media and Authenticity with Afomia. Those optional class sessions will mostly be held on Sundays.

Guest Teachers

Guest Teachers

Meenadchi (name/they) will teach a class session on Decolonized and Trauma-Informed Nonviolent Communication.

Facilitator and author of Decolonizing Non-Violent Communication. Meenadchi also completed the Consent Wizardry Educator training.

Afomia Hailemeskel (she/her) will guest teach the class on Authenticity in Social Media. This class will be optional.

Afomia is a content creator, actor, singer, and a Consent Wizardry Educator.

Watch our conversation about what brought Afomia to the Educator Training, what she got out of it and continues to get out of it, and her Authenticity in Social Media class.

IG: @afujams

Brooks Herr-Cardillo (they/them) will teach our class on Grief.

Brooks is a genderqueer witch and artist, whose work focuses on the power of ritual and ceremony. Their professional framework draws from witchcraft, ancestor work, tarot, somatics and energy healing. The guiding core of this work is to cultivate a practice of intuitive listening and response wherein we locate empowerment, integrity, authentic information, and (re)connection to our impulses and inner knowing. Brooks is also a Consent Wizardry Educator.

Risdon Roberts (she/they) will teach our class on Regret and Repair.

Risdon is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. 

Risdon

IG: @Outbeyondintimacy

Website: Outbeyondintimacy.com

Josie Alexandra (they/them) is an award winning experimental multi-dimensional artist, fascinated by the potential of intra-personal relationships as sites for reclamation and transformation in world-making processes. Their work offers critiques and envisionings to plausible futurisms [for trans and neurodiverse communities and beyond] in the current global crisis. Josie’s artistic work spans across film, sound, painting and writing. They’re also an educator, consultant, and assistant with a drive to learn the latest skills that they are fixated on.

Josie will teach our imposter syndrome practice class session on June 18th, called Who Has Time for Imposter Syndrome? It’s a speed-dating style professional pitch practice class.


We have to feel safe in order to play, and what is creativity if not play?

Expectations + Coursework

Outside of class, you will be expected to practice teaching the concepts and structures we learn in class. This includes FRIES, the Yes-to-No Spectrum, and the Wheel of Consent®. You will be asked to practice your 1:1 structure if you’re building one. This is likely 2-4 hours a week outside of class time and varies week to week. The largest chunk of teaching practice outside of class will be within the first half of the program, during which we will only be meeting once a week.

The only required outside resources are The NEW Basics, my 5-Part Boundaries + Consent course, and my Boundaries + Your Business class on Thinkific which you will have access to for free.

The two 1:1’s with Mia are required.

Expect that the business structure you build in this program will take anywhere from a year to three years to grow into itself. You will leave the program with the knowledge and tools to be able to adjust it and tinker with it over the years to keep it feeling fresh to you and your clients.

All other outside resources including the reading list, videos, and podcasts, as well as assignments are suggested and not required. You will not be quizzed or have to prove that you have done the reading in any way. However, you will get out of this program what you put in!

Some of the suggested assignments include:

  • Teaching the content we’ve learned

  • Running the practice exercises we do in class with people in your life

  • Writing letters to yourself as a child

  • Writing your business manifesto or mission statement

  • Making a brand manual

  • Various journal prompts

  • Defining terms yourself

Mia’s consent educator program needs to be a requirement for businesses starters. It gave me the language, frameworks and somatic tools to state and live my boundaries with confidence and care.
— Kuan Lo

What can you expect to get out of this program?

  • Your personal consent practice.

  • Skills, tools, vocab, structures, and frameworks and the confidence to teach them.

  • A scaleable business structure that will allow you to make more money as more people find you and your work, without you having to work more. The structures that we build in the group and through our 1:1’s can grow your income to six figures without you having to add more to your calendar.

  • Community! One of the most beautiful things about hosting this program has been the way I’ve witnessed people find and build community and friendships that have continued to grow and foster support and income.

  • A whole lot of confidence.

  • You will move through your imposter syndrome.

  • You will find your authentic creative voice in business and even in social media.

  • You’ll likely feel expansion in your relationship with your creativity.

See more below from former Educators on what they got out of the program…

Some of the classes include:

  • What is consent? + The Consent Iceberg

  • FRIES

  • The Yes-to-No Spectrum

  • Decolonized Nonviolent Communication with Meenadchi, author of the Decolonizing NVC Workbook

  • Grief with Brooks

  • Nonverbals

  • 5 Patterns in Early Consent Learning

  • Apologies, Gratitude, Regret, and Moving Forward, for you and for students/clients

  • Wanting vs. Needing

  • Building your toolkit

  • Perfectionism and People Pleasing in Your Business + Creativity

  • Biz + Marketing as Creative Self Expression

Mia's "Consent for Educators" class was truly a high-quality and transformative experience. Mia's curriculum design fit so much information into a limited amount of time, and in a way that was still approachable and not overwhelming. I really enjoyed learning concepts in the videos outside of class at my own pace, and then getting to engage with Mia and all the other students for exercises in the live classes. Getting to practice with other like-minded folks was golden, and really emphasized for me that so much of this learning needs to be experiential - not just theory! Mia's instruction and facilitation style was welcoming, inclusive, and effective.

Overall, this course helped me invest in a beautiful and challenging lifelong practice of consent. I'm still metabolizing what was taught and noticing the many ways it shows up throughout my life. The course planted seeds that will help me continue to grow and learn, both as an educator and a student, in and out of the classroom.

I'm excited to teach what I've learned, especially in classes for dance, movement, and partnered touch. Ultimately, I agree with Mia that consent is magic and it really can transform our world. If you're on the fence about signing up for this program - here's my encouragement to go for it!

—Sam

The details

  • Applications are only required for the full program.

  • 15 spots available for the full program. Unlimited spots for only the Consent Education portion or Unblocked without Biz Support and without 1:1’s.

  • VIRTUAL: Dates and times TBD.

  • All on Zoom. Live attendance is required. This program cannot be completed via recordings. No more than 2 absences from live classes is requested, with the understanding that unforeseen things come up, we all gotta work, etc.

  • The first 4 weeks we will meet once a week and you will be asked to come to class having watched a pre-recorded lesson from my BASICS class (a $333 value). Starting 4 weeks in, we will meet twice a week, with makeup classes as needed due to my shooting schedule.

    • The following class dates will be outside of the dates listed above. They will be recorded and missing them live will not count towards the attendance request:

      • There is an optional and open to the public imposter syndrome practice class session hosted by Josie Alexandra

      • Social Media and Authenticity with Afomia

      • Decolonizing Nonviolent Communication with Meenadchi

  • The guest teachers will each teach 1-2 sessions based on their area of expertise.

  • Each person will have two 45-min private sessions with Mia to go over how to bring this work into your life and make money from it so that you can be resourced in your personal and professional life. We will brainstorm offerings, curriculum, rates, marketing, taking care of yourself in this work, and anything else you bring to the table.

  • You will have a spot on the Educators page on this site!

  • I will refer people to you when I’m approached for jobs that I think you would be a good fit for, or when clients come to me and I think you’d be a better person for them to work with.

Cost

Before the Consent-Based-Teaching Artist Program i was having trouble moving forward with launching my somatic coaching business. i had many starts and stops over the past 4 years and after saving up for 2 years to quit my job and focus solely on building my business, Mia's course skyrocketed my ability to put my ideas into a tangible product and to feel confident in putting my product into the world. i started the course with 0 clients and 0 workshop experience, and after 2.5 months, i left the program with 8 consistent clients and having given my first workshop (and working on creating 2 more, because the ideas are FLOWING). in addition, even after 5 years of doing inner work around money, scarcity, abundance, and a mindset that straddles the ideology of the world i want, while meeting the reality of capitalism, i peeled back another layer of vulnerability around charging money for my work and with Mia's help came up with a pricing model that fits my nervous system, my needs, my desires, and everything in between ;) Mia has an exceptional ability to take their experiences in starting and running a business as an artist and putting those experiences into clear educational information and tools. Mia has a compelling curiosity that spurs conversations and ideas i wouldn't have thought of otherwise. Mia models boundaries; practices what they preach, which seems like it should be obvious, but in my experience with trainings, is not always the case! And lastly, Mia shared generously about their life in real time, teaching us relevant lessons as they were learning them, which takes a strength of character that is easy to trust and impossible not to. —K

Prices are all inclusive.

For the full program:

  • $7200 if you have an established business for 1+ years.

  • $5200 if you are in the planning phase of launching your business or within the first year of your business.

  • $3600 if you are in the planning phase of launching your business and you:

    • are currently under- or un-employed

    • are a sex worker

    • have debilitating student loans or medical costs (this includes any and all gender-affirming care)

    • have ever been incarcerated

    • live somewhere where the exchange rate makes the full price cost-prohibitive

    • or your ancestors have experienced land theft or slavery

*6-week payment plans are available for the full program. The program must be paid for in full by the end. A deposit of 1/3 must be made with no less than 2 weeks before the program begins.

You can read about why my prices are what they are on my Business + Financial Transparency page.

If you are in a country where the exchange rate makes this program financially inaccessible, you are welcome to make me an offer. I ask that you consider what you can invest that will hold you accountable to the work.

If you would like to get the Biz Support, but are uninterested in either the Consent Educator portion or the Unblocked portion, you may join the business support section with only one of the other sections. i.e. you can do Consent Ed + Biz Support or Unblocked + Biz Support, but Biz Support is not available without one of the other sections. Pricing will be the full cost of the program minus $800. If this is you, please email me to discuss payment options.

Please note:

This program will help you build a foundation and a structure for a scaleable business. Don’t expect to be making six figures right away. You will have a yearlong plan by the end of class that you can repeat and scale up with more students, signups, and sales, but this work takes time. People need to find out who you are and what you do.

**Please don’t go into debt for this program! Whatever amount you pay for this program should not wipe you out financially.

Some things I’d like to prepare you for:

  • A lot of grief comes up in this work. Relationships fall away as you begin to stand up for yourself and voice your boundaries. You will likely experience grief (or anticipatory grief) for those relationships, as well as grief for your past self and how different things could have been.

  • Your standards will go up. This will contribute to relationships ending, but it will also help you gravitate towards and pull in more aligned, fulfilling, easeful relationships.

  • The consent concepts we’ll go over in class are things you cannot unsee. I mean this in the best way. The world around you will become clearer, more specific, and you’ll see communication in granular detail. You’ll be able to not monitor or constrain yourself because you will become fluent with the concepts. It will becomes easy and intuitive. However—and this isn’t intended to scare you, nor is it an exaggeration—your life will change and there’s no going back.

  • We will spend the first half of the program on consent concepts. The second half will focus on business which will include digging into some stuff around your relationship with money. We will talk about finding your voice in your work, what you want to offer, how to have boundaries with your work, and engaging in marketing and branding and social media in a way that feels sustainable and authentic to you, while avoiding burnout.

  • This is a business program. It’s to help you start, develop, or restructure your business using concepts of consent and boundaries in a trauma-informed way. My goal is to help you make more money.

  • Tough shit comes up in here. Old stuff gets the dust kicked off of it. Trauma can come up. I (or the guest teacher) am the only facilitator in the room so we cannot come support on an individual basis. You will have time in Class 1 to develop your care plan.

Being taught by Mia has been such a joy. Because of their educator training I’ve been able to straighten out where and how I’d like to use consent work, which was so unclear to me before starting this course. This clarity hasn’t only improved my ability to see myself actively participating in teaching consent work, but it has improved how I interact with those I am in relationship with on a regular basis. Whether it be my new found love for grounding in gratitude instead of apologizing (brought to my attention by Mia) or my ability to detect shifts in the way folks around me are feeling based on prosody and nonverbal communication- and don’t even get me started on their Yes-to-No spectrum, which I now use as a warm nudge to remember just how important my gut is. I highly recommend giving any of Mia’s classes a try, and letting the growth speak for itself.
— Bobbie Esposito

Some of the Recommended Reading List (not required; you will not be tested lol)

Queer Attachment Zine

Care Work by Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha

How We Show Up by Mia Birdsong

When the Body Says No by Gabor Mate

Disability Visibility by Alice Wong

Turn This World Upside Down by Nora Samaran

Body of Health by Francesca McCartney

On Connection by Kae Tempest

Decolonizing Nonviolent Communication Workbook by Meenadchi

The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron

Have questions? Email me!

What past Educators are up to now…

Rebekah Rose has been commissioned for public art opportunities at their full rate, and teaching consent and art different community sites throughout LA.

Sharon Vincuilla is providing private coaching on co-regulation and consent-based collaborative care within the context of human-and-dog relationships. You can watch our conversation about what brought Sharon to the Educator Training and how she’s incorporated the training into her own business.

Bobbie Esposito manifested their dream job and teaches the principles of consent to kids through rock climbing at a gym. They’re working on a burnout program to help climbers care for themselves and work through burnout.

If you want to hear more from past Educator Trainees, check out my conversations with Laila Makled, Rebekah Rose, and Mari de Luna.

See what people have said about their experience in the educator program below…

I’m offering unlimited spots for the 1st half of the course to those who want to learn to teach consent, but do not want/need the business support.

  • This option is $800.

  • It includes:

    • What is consent? + The Consent Iceberg

    • FRIES

    • The Yes-to-No Spectrum

    • The Wheel of Consent®

    • Grief with Brooke

    • Nonverbals

    • 5 Patterns in Early Consent Learning

    • Apologies, Gratitude, Regret, and Moving Forward, for you and for students/clients

    • THE BASICS recorded 6-part class ($333 value)

  • It does not include 1:1’s with Mia.

  • It does not include the Boundaries + Your Business recorded classes nor business support.

  • It does not include a spot on the educators page.

  • You do not need to apply.

  • You may sign up for Afomia’s class and Meenadchi’s class separately, a la carte.

Mia’s integrity shines through every corner and moment in this program. They visibly care and act to create a container that is flexible, transparent, aware and honoring of bodily and emotional needs. The intellectual, spiritual and creative stimulation and inspiration is overspilling and generous as fuck. Via a constant sharing of theoretical frameworks, thought process, guest thinkers and great prompts. I haven’t seen many programs that combine theoretical foundation, business and social media guidance in such a way. My cohort was brilliant and I strongly recommend doing this course for folks who want to creatively grow and develop their unique pedagogical offering.
— TK

Unblocked: Working through creative blockages with a strong self-consent practice is available separately with unlimited spots

Unblocked is available separately as a 7-week course, without the Consent Educator training, 1:1’s, or business support.

  • It does not include 1:1’s with Mia.

  • It does not include the Boundaries + Your Business recorded classes nor business support.

  • It does not include a spot on the educators page.

  • You do not need to apply.

  • You may sign up for Afomia’s class and Meenadchi’s class separately, a la carte.

What people are saying…

Mia is a patient and generous educator. The way they conceptualize consent is so rich and nuanced that, once you’ve encountered it, going back to a binary or reductive approach is inconceivable. It’s nothing short of a revelation. In this course, I found myself connecting with others around obstacles to creativity, and in so doing, I experienced increased lightness and ease around being creative. My expectations were met and exceeded as I found discussions on people pleasing, the inner critic, and perfectionism facilitated more comfort and confidence in my own creative aspirations and projects. The exercises, journalling prompts, and discussions enriched my creative practices and sparked self-reflection. For me, there is immense value in engaging with this approach to consent—for creativity and beyond—and I enthusiastically recommend it to anyone.
— W
I took the Consent Wizadry Consent Educator Series and was blown away by all of the things that I did not know, and the way that the depths to which the Yes-to-know spectrum goes to help you considering both body and mind. I am an erotic embodiment professional and was looking for more ways to deepen my own consent practice as well as to broaden ways for me to teach my clients and students. Mia truly is a true Wizard. They synthesize multiple modalities of consent, as well as verbal and non-verbal communication skills. I chose Mia’s class because there was queer, trans, non-binary and BIPOC inclusivity. This was represented in the makeup of the class participants as well as the guest facilitators. Representation and inclusivity matters to me as a queer black non-binary femme. I would take this class again and would recommend it to others.
— Maisha Aza, Black Girl Tantra
The Educator Training with Mia has been absolutely life-changing for me. Before taking the program, I knew I wanted to start an anti-capitalist business around boundaries + consent education, relational intimacy, and somatic pleasure. While I had access to the big picture of the business and education I wanted to offer, I needed help with seeing the smaller, more detailed steps in getting there. Being able to receive Mia’s guidance and coaching throughout the Educator Training, in addition to the encouragement, shared reality, and support of my cohort, changed the game. One of the biggest gifts I received in working with Mia is internalizing the belief that I am worthy of all that I’m calling in—in business and in life. Through applying the boundaries + consent work Mia shares, not only do I experience more peace and abundance daily, I’ve also been able to launch a business offering boundaries + consent education through platonic cuddle training. I’m so grateful to Mia for offering and holding this revolutionary container, as well as being able to learn alongside like-hearted radicals, healers, coaches, and teachers around the world.
— Jozelle Wong Yu, M.A., Professional Cuddler + Boundaries and Consent Educator
Mia’s Consent Educator course was everything I hoped for. It gave me the push, confidence, and resources I needed to start my own business and teach consent to others. Mia also held space that allowed for inspirational and supportive relationships with other folks in the cohort to form. I am beyond grateful to Mia for all the work and care they put into building this curriculum and know I will be referencing it for years to come.
— Laila Makled, founder of Push2Exist
I loved taking the Consent Educator class with Mia and would recommend it to everyone, educator or not. It is Mia’s particular style and flavor of facilitating that makes learning easy, fun, and surprisingly intuitive. The concepts they introduced were ideas of consent and relationship that my body has always known but had never articulated out loud before. In addition to learning from Mia, I received opportunities throughout the course to learn from the container itself. My cohort was chock full of folks whom I admired in their work and integrity. I loved being able to learn from and alongside my peers in a well-facilitated and nuanced way. This is a class that I would absolutely invest in again, because I know the learnings will become richer each time round.
— Meenadchi - facilitator and author of Decolonizing Non-Violent Communication
I had the pleasure of being a part of Mia’s consent educator course. I enjoyed every minute of it. I took a workshop with Mia quite a few months ago and from that one workshop I could tell that they were very special kind a teacher, someone I could be very excited to learn from. Not only is Mia super educated and intelligent, they also have a way of living in their own personal experiences into the curriculum. In a way that makes it not only relatable but easier to grasp and understand. If you’re thinking about this course and you’re not quite sure whether or not this program is the right fit for you, I’m telling you that you should do it and give it a try because it may give you a lot of new perspective on your own life, business, and consent in general.
— Yaz
I had no idea what to do with my work. I had been running an extremely small business into which I had never put my full attention, sitting in the car 10 to 15 hours per week, providing services to a very affluent and white demographic who did not truly appreciate what I offered, and drowning in the shame of not actively acknowledging my privilege or addressing the ways that oppressive systems work through me. I needed to change, but I was overwhelmed and anxious and did not know where to start. I began a long journey of self actualization and lifestyle reimagining and found along the way that, as I set firmer boundaries and became more authentically me, I was leaving some relationships behind and others were also choosing to let me go on without them. I became very lonely and a bit discouraged and needed help.

Being part of Mia’s Consent Educator Course was like being welcomed into a magical guild of explorers; nourished with care; and embarking on a comprehensive growth inducing quest. I was taken under Mia’s soft wizard robes and connected with others traveling on similar journeys. I found that I was accepted. For who I am. Without question. I was given a practical guide, resources, and guidance to develop skills. I was told I can do this and wrapped in warm genuine encouragement as I tried on new ways of being my professional self. The glimpses of my future self and work became more clear. I saw and experienced magic in my own life, discovered who I am, and embraced the idea that I am a being who can allow magic to flow through me.

When I look for evidence that I have traveled, I see that I am developing curricula for new service offerings, practicing with a group of people every week, continuing to engage in practices of play and learning, and collaborating with designers to develop an artistic direction for a new entrepreneurial endeavor. I have a new business name and I found more clear and effective ways to title my role and describe what I do. I have new clients who are fully on board with what I offer and who validate the ideas that form the foundation of my work. I have a network of other magical beings with whom I can continue to grow and I have strategies to keep developing skills in asking for help, remaining regulated, and advocating for myself and others. I am so grateful for the opportunity to have been a part of Mia’s Consent Educator Course; it was an extremely significant component of my journey and something that has contributed to a strong foundation for a much healthier life.
— Sharon Vincuilla, founder of Human Canine Collaborative
I chose to take the consent educator course because I felt like most of my coaching clients really needed this work, but because many of them were navigating a lot of trauma, they felt safer getting this education from me than another person. I am so grateful that I made the investment even though it was really scary for me at the time. I have used what I learned in every capacity of my work: as a sex coach, as a surrogate partner, and as a restorative practices facilitator. I especially loved some of the guest speakers and learning about how to market and manage a business. I am still in close touch with my cohort, and we use each other as a resource and that has been invaluable. I’m so grateful I chose to invest in this program and highly recommend it for anybody that feels it’s an alignment with their offerings.
— Risdon