Upcoming classes
boundaries + consent education based in connection + creativity
Here’s what you should know about classes at @consent.wizardry:
As soon as you register for a class, you’ll receive an email with everything you need to attend. Registration usually includes access to the recording of the class so you can rewatch it later.
Recordings are not available for sale after the class has begun; you only get them if you sign up for class in advance (unless otherwise specified). I do have some recorded classes available on their own!
I highly recommend doing the recorded What Is Consent? (free), and the Practice Saying No + Nonverbals classes alongside this workbook. For an even deeper dive, check out The Basics.
“That’s the job of emotions…to let in what’s healthy and nourishing and to keep out what’s dangerous and unwelcome.” -Gabor Maté
This workbook is meant to help you get in touch with your boundaries. Using consent frameworks, structures, and vocab, you'll begin to integrate these concepts into your thinking so you can practice consent intuitively and easily. Practice dialogues let you sharpen your consent tools. There's space for reflection and journaling as well.
This digital workbook is designed with an emphasis on consent and boundaries around interpersonal relationships and sex. You can print it out and use the designated spaces for journaling and reflection, or use your own notebook.
You’ll receive a link to download this book after you purchase it. Please respect my personal boundaries around this book: It is for you to use. The pdf and link is not meant to be shared nor reproduced anywhere and is only for personal use. However, feel free to share about it on social media and with friends!
**This book is intended for personal use for one individual only. Please contact Mia for group rates at mia@sharetheloadinc.com.
This book is not a teaching tool. Completing this workbook does not qualify you to teach the contents of this book.
No portion of this book should be copied and redistributed without compensation to Mia and Consent Wizardry.
This workbook is not meant to replace therapy or any medical attention.
Explore more of Consent Wizardry (and support my work) by:
ordering my upcoming book, How to Do Consent (Without Sounding Like A Robot) from North Atlantic Books!
checking out my merch and digital resources
reading my Substack
listening to Share the Load Podcast and You’re Doing it Wrong with me and Risdon Roberts— rate, review, and subscribe!
joining the newsletter to stay up to date
sharing my work with people you think would enjoy it!
Any way you spread the word is so appreciated!
The Boundaries + Consent Workbook is a good companion to any class.
Hi, I’m Mia. I’m an author, multi-media artist, and an intimacy coordinator for TV, film, and theater. It’s my mission to make consent education as digestible and widely available as possible so you can identify your desires, needs, and boundalries and authentically express them to others in your own unique voice.
Relationships are my life’s work.
upcoming class schedule
OCT 3-WEEK || Train the Trainer: Learn to Teach Consent
NOV 2-DAY || Consent + DNVC: Navigating Rupture and Repair
NOV-DEC 3-WEEK || Boundaries + Consent for People Pleasers
FEBRUARY 5-DAY || Woven’s Business Starter MiniSeries
MARCH 3-MONTH || Woven’s Virtual 3-Month Entrepreneurship Program
More information below…
OCT 3-WEEK
Train the Trainer: Learn to Teach Consent
FOR THERAPISTS, PRACTITIONERS, COACHES, + MORE
with Mia
VIRTUAL: Tuesdays and Thursdays, October 6 - 20, 10am-noon PT / 1-3pm ET. You will receive the recordings of each class session.
This program doesn’t teach you how to do consent, it teaches you how to think about consent.
This is a personal and professional development course for therapists, coaches, sex-ed or lifeskills teachers, healers, practitioners, intimacy coordinators, and anyone who works in sex-related or intimacy fields. Whether you work with clients via 1:1 sessions, coaching, therapy, or workshops, this intensive will help you teach consent with a focus on the Yes to No Spectrum through a trauma-informed lens, support clients in caring for themselves through no’s, and help you build your own care plan for doing your work sustainably.
If your clients need tools, skills, vocabulary, and exercises to…
communicate better
identify, feel they deserve, and ask for their needs and desires
say no
advocate for themselves
ask for a raise
feel secure attachment with themselves and others
stop self-silencing patterns in their relationships
…this program will give you tools to share with them, and use yourself.
Read about the program here.
VIRTUAL: Tuesdays and Thursdays, October 6 - 20, 10am-noon PT / 1-3pm ET. You will receive the recordings of each class session.
Please note: Recordings of this program will be for sale after the program so that others can get the material virtually and do it in their own time. If you do not want to be in the recordings, you will be able to turn your camera off, and I can stop recording if you want to share out loud without being recorded.
Curious but not sure yet? Try the What Is Consent? recorded class for FREE!
You’ll automatically get an email with everything you need for the first day, including the two recorded classes when you checkout. If you don’t get one, check your spam.
This is a big deal! Take a deep breath and celebrate!
This class is $399. A payment plan option is available here.
Please note: The deadline for refunds is 24 hours before the first class.
Read about the program here.
NOVEMBER 16 + 17
Consent + DNVC: Navigating Rupture and repair
with Mia Schachter + Meenadchi
VIRTUAL: Monday + Tuesday, November 16 + 17, 5-7pm PT / 8-10pm ET. Recordings are included with registration in advance; they will not be for sale after the fact.
Hi! We’re Meenadchi and Mia and we’ve been friends and colleagues for over five years now. We’ve taught together in the past, but our work has changed a lot in the last few years as we’ve changed, so we wanted to put together an offering for anyone interested in consent + Decolonized Nonviolent Communication (DNVC) updated for the times we’re in now.
From Mia: “I used to want to help people find the power to say ‘no.’ I approached consent from the perspective of asking, ‘How do we keep bad things out? How do we protect ourselves?’ But now I’m much more interested in helping people say ‘yes.’ I want to give people tools to foster connection, trust, and intimacy. Now I find myself asking, ‘What if consent could help us determine what to let in, and in so doing, help us grow, learn, and try new things in a supported way?’”
From Meenadchi: “Rupture is inevitable, repair is intentional. Repair becomes harder when we are unclear about our needs, limits, and longings during the reconnection process. During this workshop, you will be guided through an embodied reflection on the relationships that ruptured and ended - and the ones that ruptured and found their way back. We will study them not to assign blame, but to gather data. What conditions made repair possible? Where did it collapse? What did you need that you couldn’t yet name? From that inquiry, you’ll begin to articulate the relational ecology that allows you to move through both accountability and forgiveness with gratitude and grace.”
Read about the program here.
VIRTUAL: Monday + Tuesday, November 16 + 17, 5-7pm PT / 8-10pm ET. Recordings are included with registration in advance; they will not be for sale after the fact.
Read about the program here.
When you register, you’ll automatically get an email with everything you need for the first day, including the two recorded classes. If you don’t get one, check your spam.
This class is $199.
Please note: The deadline for refunds is 24 hours before the first class.
NOV-Dec 3-week
Boundaries + Consent for People Pleasers
with Mia
VIRTUAL: Mondays and Wednesdays, November 30-December 14, 10am-noon PT / 1pm-3pm ET
Are you giving past your capacity and then resenting other people for it? Are you struggling to feel your boundaries? Do you freeze when it’s time to say “no”?
If you frequently find yourself in this state of people pleasing, you’re likely concerning yourself more with how you’re beingperceived than how you feel. You may be estranged from your desires, not feel safe in your own mind or body, and therefore be disconnected from your agency and creativity.
This is a great class for artists, self-employed people, people in helping professions, and organizers activists. You’ll learn practical tools and skills to identify and express your boundaries, needs, and desires.
This course will give you practice tools to access your confidence, ask for what you want, say no, take rejection with gratitude, advocate for yourself, harness stress so you can propel yourself to act, and apply these skills outward through examples from TV and film.
Read about the program here.
VIRTUAL: Mondays and Wednesdays, November 30-December 14, 10am-noon PT / 1pm-3pm ET
Class recordings will be available to those who register for the full program in advance.
Read about the program here.
You also get my Boundaries + Consent for People Pleasers workbook with your registration!
Curious but not sure yet? Try the What Is Consent? recorded class for FREE!
When you register, you’ll automatically get an email with everything you need for the first day, including the two recorded classes. If you don’t get one, check your spam.
There are limited spots available at $199 and $99 for those who have recently lost their SNAP benefits, are on unemployment, who were formerly incarcerated, or who otherwise could not access this program. I will not question your ability to use this option.
You are welcome to email me with your budget if and only if you are in a country that makes this untenable given the exchange rate. Your email should clearly state how much you are able and willing to invest in this course, and need not include anything else. Please consider what you can afford, without going into debt, that will keep you accountable to the work and the group.
Please note: The deadline for refunds is 24 hours before the first class.
February 5-DAY
Woven’s Business Starter MiniSeries
with Mia + Hannah
VIRTUAL: February 8-12, 6-6:45pm PT / 9-9:45 ET. Sign up for all or just one.
5 days of bite sized trainings for those at the beginning stages of their business.
Class 1: Boundaries for Creatives and Entrepreneurs
When you work for yourself, you don't clock in and out. It's easy to find yourself working all the time. You're the one who has to stop checking your email, make sure you take lunch, and don't work through the weekend. Step off that hamster wheel and get a bird's eye view so you can live your life outside of your job.
Class 2: C.R.A.P. Creative Resets for Activated People - Self Regulation Tools to not Crash Out
Learn to stay far away from burnout with these self-regulation practices. We need you healthy, so your business can be healthy.
Class 3: I want to start a business but I dont know what yet
What do you like doing? What do you want to do? What do you already do? What do you not want to do? Who is your work for? Who is it not for? We'll get you that clarity.
Class 4: I'm Scared of Social Media!
Me too, honey. Me too. But social media can function like a living, breathing website that advertises your services while you sleep. Find a relationship with social media that you find healthy (not for us to say!) and start making that content!
Class 5: Skeleton of a Business Plan, but not Scary
What should I put into a business plan? Why do I need a business plan? Help!
You'll receive the recordings after, even if you can't attend live.
Register here.
FEBRUARY 3-MONTH
Woven’s 3-Month ENtrepreneurship Program
with Mia, Hannah Said, + amazing guest teachers
VIRTUAL: Tuesdays and Thursdays, March 9 - June 1, 6-8pm PT / 9-11pm ET
If you feel stifled working for other people and want to feel freer to express yourself authentically and get paid well for work you love, we can help you figure out your business plan, what you do and don’t do, who your work is for, how to set rates, market yourself, and build your brand identity without crashing out.
If you run a business and you feel you’ve hit a wall, want to rebrand, need community support, want to feel more creative in your work, or just need some accountabilibuddies, we can help you figure out next steps while connecting you with business experts in finance, social media, content creation, marketing, strategy, and more to help you feel more confident putting yourself and your business out there.
If you feel like a jack of all trades and master of none, if you feel like you do too many things and they’re not related at all (they probably are!), if you feel like you’re supposed to choose just one career, goal, artistic medium, or idea and you want to feel like an integrated, whole person with a coherent and cohesive business who never gets bored, you’re gonna like it here.
Read about the program here.
