5 DAY INTENSIVE:

The New Basics

with Mia (they/them)

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I’ve talked about taking this course before and people frequently assume consent work is just about sex. It’s not. We barely talked about it. I took this almost 2 years ago and it helped me like, reparent myself & start over. I walked away feeling way more in touch with myself, my boundaries, wants, needs, and my values. It *reaaaallllyyy* helped me get unstuck in some work burnout. I can’t recommend [Mia’s] work enough. It changed my life!
— Former student

Is this class for you?

There’s more to consent than ‘no means no’ and ‘anything other than enthusiasm is a no.’ Consent is so much more than permission, so much more than yes and no. If you want to go beyond your remedial, mandatory, anti-sexual harassment consent education to find a deeper relationship with yourself, more authenticity, self-expression, more easeful and aligned relationships in work, play, and romance, this course will give you practice tools to access your confidence, ask for what you want, say no, take rejection with gratitude, advocate for yourself, harness stress so you can propel yourself to act, and apply these skills outward so you can access your creativity, avoid burnout, and find your voice.

Are you running into the same recurring kinds of conflict? Are you struggling to start stuff that you're pretty sure you actually want to do? Are you feeling burnt out by the constant need to create, advocate for yourself and your friends, and communicate and hold your boundaries? Are you looking for a community of people who also want to work on these things? Come build a consent practice with me so you can move through the world with a strong internal sense of safety that allows you to explore.

This course is for anyone who struggles to speak up for themselves, access their ‘no,’ find and communicate boundaries, feels pushed, bullied, burn out, or taken advantage of. This course is also for anyone who finds themselves not being fully transparent for fear of rejection, anyone who’s been told they are difficult to say ‘no’ to, or feels they’re not in touch with their desires and needs.

This is a trauma-informed, neuro-diversity-aware approach to consent that takes the gut-brain axis into account. Consent is more than “no means no” or getting permission. Consent is a language and an embodied practice.

This is an all-levels course, so whether you’ve taken a class before or this is your first toe-dipping into this kind of content, this class will be a good fit.

What will we be doing?

  • Class 1: What is Consent + the Consent Iceberg

  • Class 2: The Yes to No Spectrum + Power Dynamics

  • Class 3: Nonverbals + 6 Patterns in Early Consent Learning

  • Class 4: Practice Exercises - Bringing it into the body

  • Class 5: Self-Consent and Caring for Yourself

You’ll take away a deep and intuitive understanding of power dynamics. You’ll begin to access the embodied sense of your boundaries. Consent and boundary knowledge can help you find evermore nuance and subtlety in your communication. It gives more options, expands structure, and can even open up space for creativity.

This is a skill-building and embodiment practice course.

  • You'll learn vocab that will help you express yourself more clearly.

  • You'll learn to feel your boundaries and communicate them.

  • You'll practice saying 'no.'

  • You'll get more in touch with your needs and desires.

  • You'll learn to feel your capacity and not go beyond it.

  • You'll learn breathing techniques and practice exercises that you can share with others.

Read what people are saying about these classes.

My approach is to zoom in so we can slow down, and begin to make the unconscious conscious.

Payment + Pricing

This course is $500. Payment plans are available to pay half twice 3 weeks apart.

Sliding scale options starting at $250 are available to those who:

  • are S€x Workers

  • have been incarcerated

  • have excessive medical costs

  • have debilitating student loans

  • have ancestors who experienced slavery

  • live somewhere where the exchange rate makes this course cost-prohibitive

  • have ancestors who experienced, or have themselves experienced, land theft

  • need to use it.

Wondering if this scale is for you? It is. Still not sure? It is. Still not sure?? Email me.

Prices are set at a rate such that even at the lowest rate, I feel good providing the work, as in, not depleted or taken advantage of. If you feel uneasy using the lower tier but it makes it possible for you to join a program, use it! The ways you can pay it forward include inviting your friends to join with you, forwarding the program and other CW programs to friends, family, and colleagues, and spreading the word any way you can. You can sign up for the newsletter and forward it, send your boss our Professional Wellness Consulting page, subscribing, rating, and reviewing the podcast, subscribing on Instagram, and any other way you can think of to help get the word out.

You can read more testimonials here. Inquire for group rates.

You can read about why my prices are what they are on my Business + Financial Transparency page.

If this is cost-prohibitive, you are always welcome to make me an offer, especially if you are in a country where the exchange rate makes this class financially inaccessible.

What people are saying…

Through this course, I was astonished to learn that I had been violating my own boundaries my whole life. It taught me to respect my own needs and form constructive and healthy boundaries. A life lesson that has significantly improved my mental health and one that I will never forget!
— P

I have been in therapy for ten years and Codependents Anonymous for one year. Both of these things gave me the conceptual framework to understand why my life was continuously dysfunctional, but I still found myself in a dysfunctional space. I felt that I didn’t deserve to be close to others when I couldn’t get a grasp on my own dysfunction. When I started working with Mia, that is when my life changed significantly for the better because they offered the actual tools and skills I needed to understand my own needs, meet them for myself, and interact with others in a healthy way through consent and boundary setting. I find myself practicing these tools and skills every day, in all facets of my life and feel a stability that is more secure than I’ve ever felt in my adult life because I’m able to set boundaries. I finally feel that I am deserving of giving and receiving love because of this stability and framework to care for myself and others. I would recommend these courses to everyone!

—A

just wanted to say thanks for your course last spring and for your work in general. i have had a lovely week of asking for the things i need from people and seeing those things come to life and it feels like magic! and your instagram page is a constant reminder that this is possible
— Bhairavi Chand
Through these classes I have grown a much more rounded picture of consent, self consent, and the systems and dynamics in place that impede our consent practices. I have been able to cultivate a self consent practice that has helped me listen to myself and my boundaries, and in turn helped me to better hear others and their boundaries. I’ve deeply appreciated the class discussions and learning what different peoples consent and care practices look like. Thank you so much for compiling these resources and for facilitating these discussions. It’s been truly life changing.
— Sierra

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