Kelly talks about the Left Eating Our Own

Special guest: Kelly! Kelly comes on to talk about shutting down a social justice project because of Cancel Culture and the ways the Left eat our own.

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Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, multi-disciplinary philosopher-artist, musician, and Tinder’s Resident Consent Educator living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach group classes online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry and you can read their writing, including their canceled memoir on Substack.

Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. 

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

• You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

• I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

  • Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

  • Plot driven feature lengths.

  • Soft stuff.

Daddy?

This episode was recorded before our last episode. We published them out of order because Mia wanted to wait to secure the rights to their canceled book, Unsolicited Advice, now available on Substack.

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We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats!!!

Upcoming classes.

Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach group classes online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry and you can read their writing, including their canceled memoir on Substack.

Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. 

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

• You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

• I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

  • Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

  • Plot driven feature lengths.

  • Soft stuff.

We got too high and had sex anyway

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We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats!!!

Upcoming classes.

Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach group classes online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry and you can subscribe on Substack.

Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. 

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

• You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

• I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

  • Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

  • Plot driven feature lengths.

  • Soft stuff.

My needs don't change because of your needs

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We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats!!!

Upcoming classes.

Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach group classes online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry and you can subscribe on Substack.

Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. 

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

• You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

• I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

  • Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

  • Plot driven feature lengths.

  • Soft stuff.

Brad Stops By

Our friend Brad stops by. He runs @nature.is.not.metal on IG.

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We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats!!!

Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach group classes online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry and you can subscribe on Substack.

Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. 

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

• You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

• I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

  • Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

  • Plot driven feature lengths.

  • Soft stuff.

The One About Incest

CW: Incest, CSA.

No one asked for it but we did it anyway.

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We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats!!!

Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry.

Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. 

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

• You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

• I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

  • Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

  • Plot driven feature lengths.

  • Soft stuff.

Literal Violence

We talk about when your body does stuff that confuses your mind, how being allowed to change your mind also comes with having to stand by the choices you make, and literal violence.

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Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry.

Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. 

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

• You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

• I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

  • Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

  • Plot driven feature lengths.

  • Soft stuff.

People Pleasing, Regret, and Fingers in Butts

Sorry for the wonky audio, y’all, we’re working on it.

We talk about people pleasing, regret, dry fingers in butts, retroactively being upset, consent not taking place vs being violated, and members of oppressed groups thinking they can oppress others.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

Mia Schachter is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry.

Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. 

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

• You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

• I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

  • Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

  • Plot driven feature lengths.

  • Soft stuff.

When Consent Is Not the Priority

We talk about mosquito slaps, cults, facilitating makeouts, boarding school, and when consent is not the top priority.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry.

Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. 

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

• You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

• I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

  • Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

  • Plot driven feature lengths.

  • Soft stuff.

The Falleability of Memory

We talk about the fallibility of memory, believing women, and whether or not Mia can make Risdon orgasm on command.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry.

Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. 

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

• You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

• I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

  • Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

  • Plot driven feature lengths.

  • Soft stuff.

Mia Gets Canceled By Israel

We talk about Gigi Hadid and the Israeli government’s IG account resharing Mia’s post, surveillance, surrogate partner therapy, and cognitive dissonance.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry.

Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. 

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

• You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

• I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

  • Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

  • Plot driven feature lengths.

  • Soft stuff.

Be/Do, Bisexuals, and RENT

We talk about the queer be/do phenomenon, biphobia, RENT the musical, being shy, and making out.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry.

Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. 

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

• You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

• I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

  • Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

  • Plot driven feature lengths.

  • Soft stuff.

Capacity

Two people who are doing capacity wrong talk about capacity, dishonesty, and the veil between you and yourself.

We can’t figure out wtf is wrong with our mics. We are working on it.

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Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry.

Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. 

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

• You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

• I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

  • Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

  • Plot driven feature lengths.

  • Soft stuff.

Repentance

We talk about Yom Kippur, cycles of harm and repair, mercy, and our own list of murderable offenses.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry.

Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. 

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

• You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

• I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

  • Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

  • Plot driven feature lengths.

  • Soft stuff.

You're Doing It Wrong!

A twink, Mia Schachter (Consent Wizardry), and a whore, Risdon Roberts (Out Beyond Intimacy), talk consent 2.0, beyond yes and no.

We introduce ourselves, talk about how we got into this work, our approaches, and what consent means to us.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry.

Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. 

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

• You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

• I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

  • Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

  • Plot driven feature lengths.

  • Soft stuff.